Married guys - car budgets and honesty

I'm not divorced because I lack skills for marriage but because I was sick of being married to a crazy drunken *****! (who also happened to HATE my Barracuda) LOL

She tried to tell me she was gonna take my car and my business, which I started 12 years before I even met her.

We never did combine bank accounts, thankfully. I woke up one morning about a year ago exactly, after a really bad night that I will probably never forget, and told her to pack her junk and find a place to live, asap. Best thing I did in a LONG time.

That said, whatever works best for each of us is what works best. I don't think there can be any one way for everyone, that's for sure.