Married guys - car budgets and honesty

1. It's our money.
2. She's more important than the money.
3. Honesty is the best policy.
If you can follow these rules you, have a good partner and marriage.

That being said. Do I spend money on things I don't "need"?
Well yes.
Number 3 works for us because she's as frugal as I am. We both had Depression parents. It rubbed off. We know things can get bad fast. She has a sister. I got the cheap one. I think got the better deal. I love my wife.
Her sister is high maintenance. But then again her sister makes money.