some buyers will pay the fees, some won't.
If a seller wants $X in their pocket, then the buyer needs to pony up. It's that simple. If the buyer says I won't do it, then no sale. It's not that hard and if the buyer is offended, then run to the PO and get a money order which probably cost more time, money and effort than the paypal fee on anything under about $350.
RRR, none of my comments are directed at any individual post. I will say you are wrong on at least one premise.
I'm out and carry on.