starter relay needed? ????

I guess i didnt think the solonoid pulled that much power, i apologize if u took me the wrong way im very grateful for the help ALWAYS-i guess i still dont understand the stock wiring then, any Mopar ive had barely had a 14 or 12 ga. Wire to the solonoid from the relay, so i understand what am i not getting? ??

I think you'll find that wire is at least 12. The "tractor" or universal starter buttons are fine, as long as the wiring is large enough, that is not the problem. Problem is the NSS cannot handle it, and a stock switch is in ground circuit.