It's not clear to me that you have a specific plan.
...What do you have for a weapon? You don't hunt moose with a .22, or even wander out there having forgotten your rifle. so arm you self. What do you have?
test light?
multimeter?
test clip leads?
service manual?
wiring diagrams?
A clear idea in your head of the "wiring path" that is the source, the path, the terminations along the way that the starter relay takes?
You can download service manuals in this thread:
http://www.forabodiesonly.com/mopar/showthread.php?p=1970088617
and some more at MyMopar
http://www.mymopar.com/index.php?pid=31
Also at MyMopar are third party wiring diagrams which are simpler and sometimes easier to follow BUT which leave out some things, and not always correct.
THE PATH of the relay wiring.
Colors vary. The following does not cover that as you can look it up. The 73 manual should be "close"
From the key, the start signal goes through the bulkhead
So you already have TWO (or three) points of interest......
Is the start signal actually "leaving" the ignition switch? Is it coming through the switch connector?
Is it getting "out" into the engine bay through the bulkhead?
Originally, it went through the contacts of the hated reset device for the seat belt interlock, and then went on to the start relay "push on" connector, yellow, yellow tracer, whatever
You need to check this. "Catch" it when it failed, and check it with your light. START clear out at the relay and see whether you get a "start" signal
HINT.............Check BOTH small push on terminals for power in "start." ONE should go to the transmission NSS. IF YOU HAVE power on that terminal, then the NS switch, or wiring, or connections is / are bad, or the linkage is not engaging the switch.
To put that another way, the push on terminal going to the NSS should NOT show power, as it should be grounded in park or neutral
EASY way to eliminate the switch TEMPORARILY. ID the start wire (yellow) and then remove the REMAINING "push on" connector at the relay, and GROUND that relay terminal with a clip lead. CAREFUL as now it'll start in any gear. Does it work? Concentrate on the NSS wire and circuit.
OK so what? You don't? have start power at the relay yellow? Where to check next? Pick the EASY TO GET TO places. Crawl under the dash, and access the ignition switch connector, check that wire at the dash harness side of the switch connector......Power?
Yes? Then look for trouble at the bulkhead connector
No? Check the ignition switch side of the switch connector. WIGGLE the connector. Wiggle the key. No power? It's the switch at fault.
Let's say we are OK clear out to the bulkhead connector.........what then.......? You don't? have power at the yellow relay wire at the relay?
LOOK AGAIN for that reset box under the dash. Maybe it's there and you missed it. Maybe someone removed it BUT MAYBE they did a crappy job bypassing it, and the wires are taped together, crappy connection.
Here, the relay/ reset........
http://www.forabodiesonly.com/mopar/showthread.php?t=14304
http://www.forabodiesonly.com/mopar/showthread.php?p=1969624169
http://www.forabodiesonly.com/mopar/showthread.php?t=292463
More........
So you've checked for power at the relay, you've checked the NSS is grounded, what then?
MAYBE the relay is failing. sometimes they get rusted inside, etc, or just corroded conacts. Hey it's old. I don't like "throwing parts" at a problem, but intermittent troubles are always.........troublesome. Consider buying a relay. All Chrysler 4 terminal start relays work the same. The brackets can be different.