should i feel this way about fathers day

kids are like colts, everyone is different.

I was raised by working parents. I knew that we got by, that's it. I never asked for anything. they made sure I had food to eat, respected people and life. when I was little, I knew my mom took me to the clothing stoe before school started, charged it all to her "store" account, and I took her all year to pay for those few jeans, shirts, and socks!! in hs i worked at grocery store after school and sat. pa gave me an old 49 chevy so I didn't have to walk. when I was 12, he bought me an old horse, because he knew how bad I wanted it. my aunt gave him the price of it. I worked and got scholarship for college. majored in ag, so i'm NO rocket scientist.
oldest daughter was raised like me, we had more but was raised with same priciples. she worked her way thru college twice. in h s worked at Walmart after school and weekends, other daughter worked at Dairy Queen. I got a card and email. I guess what i'm saying to those that have children, that have not yet grown into adults, is that tough times are not necessarily a bad thing.. and when we give them our time, it is with love ......NOT their entitlement?
and for children that have grown into adults, I hope each and every one of them, if not already aware, will realize what their parents did to raise them.
life is never easy and is always complicated.