How long do I wait for parts paid for before becoming a dick! ADDED SELLERS NAME !!!

I'm trying to be decent about this as I have had nothing but great transactions in the past on this site. I just think a month is a little long. I have had communication from the seller. The last message that I received was last Tuesday, saying that everything was shipped and I will get a tracking number. No parts, no tracking number, and it doesn't take 9 days to get it here, I don't care where it's coming from.I won't say who it is just yet just in case there was a legitimate screw up. I'm just getting nervous, after being burned once in the past.