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A fully loaded 4 speed transmission? :dontknow:

That would most likely would hafta been sent through the FEDEX, or UPS, carriers.

Would one of those, crated up, been within the weight restrictions, withought having to go Freight?

No. And if It's freight, it may take quite some time. Last time I had a trans shipped, especially cross country, took 5 weeks. Mainly because Venture left it sitting on their dock for over 2 weeks before sending it from Arizona to Indiana