I don't want to sound like I'm minimizing your experiences guys, but the wife had hers both done at different times and she was pregnant both times.
Imagine that.
With the loss of mobility from the knee and spine issues and the mental part of serious illnesses or injuries are almost as bad as the injury or illness itself. I gained an extra adult person( maybe two depending on size LOL ) in weight due to loss of mobility stress depression and everything else that goes along with it including bad eating choices so I feel her pain
