Aluminum intake to Iron heads

Question: After reading a few threads, is it the consensus that one should NOT use the metal intake gaskets that were provided in my engine rebuild kit if going Aluminum intake to Iron heads? Or should I use something like the FelPro 1213?

I've removed my dowel pins but will this tab protruding out from head gasket cause concern if either gasket is used?

I plan on not using the cork end gaskets, but instead sealant.