How long do I wait for parts paid for before becoming a dick! ADDED SELLERS NAME !!!

Is the tracking number any good?? Can you check to see the details of the shipment, such as the weight to make sure it is in fact your trans being shipped and coming your way??? Any excuses from the seller?? Hope it's your parts and the exact trans you paid for, not confident after 2 months that the seller is even remotely honest!!!