so what is the best balancing method

I think you found out a hell of a lot more than you knew to begin with. No need to be an *** to people who were trying to help you. A lot of people typed a lot to try to inform you. Just because you still cannot make up your mind, does not mean you learned nothing. Really, you should be a little more thankful. I think maybe next time I will cruise right on by your threads.

Plus sometimes we don't have anything better to do than discuss something simple for days. :D