goodbye guys, gonna have to call it quits.

I am no expert at this Matt, but I think maybe you better think this through a little more. A relationship where things are defined, like "I get to work in the shop all weekend every weekend", is going to get rough. I'm not a marraige counsellor or anything close to it, but I do know that both halfs have to work at it and work hard. I know you thought you were getting the dirty end of the stick and as a male you did just what most of us do, you said that's what I bargained for so I will live with it. I know from experience the female mind does not work that way. As soon as they feel that they are getting the bad end of the stick, ie: no help from you on the weekends, the resentment will start to build and finally you get to the situation you are at now. Have a good long talk with her, not arguing, but talking. I think you both can probably give a little on this one. Maybe work on the car when you can on the weekends and at night when nothing else is going on. Marriage is a constant of give and take. Make sure you both know that and things will go a lot better and maybe you can still work on your car and drop in here once in a while.

But, then again, I might be full of ****.

Jack