goodbye guys, gonna have to call it quits.

No matter how true that could be, you are not helping his dilemma with your insight.

Either help, remain in the background, or continue causing problems...

Causing problems....where do you get that ? So what am I supposed to do....pat him on the back and tell him it will all be ok? Go read a few of his posts...this is a long time ongoing problem....I repeat ....they both need to grow up. I will no longer "cause any problems" on this thread