Modern Headlights

Can I agree and disagree?

Shirley! :D

I bought 3 complete packages from Hella about 10 years ago, lights, wiring, relay, etc.
Not sure about now.

Hella has never offered headlamp relay kits or harnesses (as such), with or without headlamps. They offer relays and accessories (terminals, relay brackets), and they have a few different fog/driving lamp harnesses, but no headlamp relay packages and no headlamp sockets or plugs, etc.

But the 10-years-ago purchase would definitely explain why your original relays were marked Germany. Truth to tell, I steered away from Hella relays about 12 years ago, because even before they moved production to China the comeback rate was too high. Switched to handling Bosch/Tyco and Flosser relays and dead relays pretty much stopped happening.

Good idea to toss a spare relay in the glovebox.