As inertia says, this grey film can be water/condensation. Not sure how you can say it is not.... grey scum under the valve covers is indeed one of THE common results of a non-working PCV or moisture not getting driven out. It aslo can be brownish.... How does the coolant level look in the radiator? I don't think I have ever seen bearing materials show up on a disptick, even with a temporarily seized crank and another case of totally wiped out and spun main bearings; it all went to the bottom.