Rude People ruin get together

I had an aunt ( one of a half doz), but she was always late for everything. had a buddy that would get up at 4:30 a m and then piddle around and wait till the very last second to get ready f or work! ha

some peole like t make an "entrance", be the center of attention.

like he said, don't relay on people if you know you can't rely on them. me, I would start dinner on time, and set their's aside for them when they arrive. then you can visit with them as they eat.