Advice on changing from stock 14 inch rims and spacing

It's a shame because otherwise I would keep stock because I do actually like the stock hub caps she has and then she could keep more of the "sleeper" look��

Then you should call Stockton Wheel. They can make you anything you want. They can make plain steel wheels in any backspacing or width you want, so that you can still use the hub caps you have.

http://www.stocktonwheel.com/