Yeah, I've been thinking about the relays not being in the proximity of the load. My understanding is point of a relay is not so much due to the load not he wires, it's the load on the switch. So I'm inclined to think it's just fine. Besides...not like I'm wiring a school bus. It's a dart...the headlights are like 4' away.
Now that being said, I got the kit in the mail today. I'm VERY happy with it. All wires have NO connectors on them, but they're included. I knew this going in, from their website. They're marked periodically. The build quality for he distribution box is really nice. Backing is metal, cover is metal, with a printed circuit board that everything is soldered to. All fuses are labeled in in small print on the circuit board.
BEST of all, the 24"x 18" color laminated (both sides) directions are awesome. I need to spend some time studying it, but it looks like a no brainer. I'm reluctant to post a close up pic as I think they actually sell it on their website. They clearly put some work into it. Not some thrown together 8x11 print out. It's very descriptive...and very clear. I'm sure it'll get confusing when I start wiring though. LOL