headliner installation instructions

The headliner is a son-of-a-***** to install the bows you buy from these guys aren't bent to go into the holes in the inner panels of the roof. They give you Mickey Mouse pockets that are supposed to be clipped to the top of the inner roof of the car instead of the bend in the hoops. I took mine to a upholstery shop and they looked at it and wouldn't touch it, they say they do headliners all the time and they can't afford to waste their time messing with it. So back home and doing it myself. 72 years old and too fat makes it tough. I know go on a diet. Slow go. I will get the ¥£#% in.