foglights in the grille?

In addition to what others have said:

Fog lamps are mostly useless, most of the time, for most drivers. See here for solid info on what fog lamps will/won't and can/can't do. "Driving lamp" or "driving light" is a widely misunderstood term. People use it to refer to all kinds of different lights. In fact, driving lamps are auxiliary high beams. They are effective, safe, and legal only for use with the vehicle's main high beam headlamps on dark, empty roads (or off road). Never with low beams, never by themselves, never in bad weather, and never in traffic.

There's a bunch of bad info flushing around: "fog lamps are yellow and driving lamps are white", "they're fog lamps if they're mounted low, driving lamps if they're mounted high", "they're fog/driving lights", etc. All of those are wrong. All vehicle exterior lighting functions, even the ones that aren't mandatory (like fog lamps, likdaytime running lights and side turn signal repeaters in the USA, or central brake lights on cars made before 1986, etc) are highly specified as to their design, construction, numerous aspects of performance, durability, etc. It's far, far more detailed than just "Well, it's a red light facing rearward that comes on when I step on the brake, so it's a brake light" or "Well, I turn 'em on in the rain so I use 'em as fog lights" or "Well, the eBay ad said turn signal, so that's what it is". We do not get to just declare any ol' light into whatever function we want -- doing so is unsafe, even if we don't have to pass an inspection.

If you really, actually need fog lamps because you drive through soup, pick out a good set of real fog lamps made by a legitimate manufacturer (there's a ton of junk on the market) and mount them low. But your money, time, and effort are much better spent upgrading the headlamps.

I was hoping to find a set that maintained the indicator by means of a smaller bulb, also build into the housing

No such lamp. Again, just because it flashes amber light doesn't make it a legitimate or safe turn signal.

I just want to see where I'm aiming that car at night

Start here.