MUFFLERS, what should i get?

I'm partial to flowmasters myself. If the drone bugs you, you're too old.

Drone has nothing to do with being loud, it just has to do with a crappy design. Ultra flo's are louder than flowmasters, so the "old" joke doesn't apply.

If you like the tinny, "something's broken" rattling sound the flowmasters give you at idle and the godawful reverberating drone at cruise, it's possible you're just deaf already.

Do you Dynomax Ultra Flo drone at all?

Hey, What's wrong with Dynomax Ultra Flow's, Hooker Aerochambers or Hooker Max Flow's??
From all the testing i have seen the Hooker Max Flow is one of the best flowing muffler out there.
I didn't ask for a race muffler suggestion as I just would have slapped the race bullets on it.
Keep in mind this is more of a street car. I cruise around with my 2 young kids so I'm looking for a compromise.

there is absolutely no drone from the ultra flows

I've never had any drone at all from the welded Ultra-Flo's on my Duster. It's been my experience that they're a bit louder than most of the equivalent flowmaster models, but not by a lot. In my Duster I run them behind a 340 with a set of Doug's headers and a 2.5" dual exhaust with no crossover. I like them so much I already bought a set of 3" Ultra-Flo's for my Satellite, and there's a good chance they'll end up on my Challenger and my Dart too.