Cant get it to turn over

when I touch both ends with the screwdriver, it doesn't turn over

You are jumpering the LARGE relay terminals?

If so, either the wire from the "square" screw terminal is bad to the solenoid, or you don't have battery hooked to the solenoid "large" nut / stud

In the photo above, those are the terminals in the right side of the photo.

Is there some wiring unhooked?