Stalls in Gear, Automatic- Restarts Good- Can Slam it into Gear! EEEK

It's possible the chain jumped, but you'd likely have other symptoms. Even if it did jump, fixing the timing and fuel delivery will make it easier to diagnose that.

You've replaced all the small bits, and the transmission is probably OK. That means the most likely culprit is in the timing or fuel delivery, and these are easy to work on.
i appreciate your optimism, i could really use that right now!
Timing can be all over the place and 'run just fine'. Hell, it could be 5 degrees ATDC and with the mechanical advance coming in at higher revs it will drive pretty OK but run like poo at low revs.

Timing can also have an effect on the way things burn in the engine, and cause an exhaust stench that will cause watery eyes and smelly garages. 7psi is high, but if it fires right back up then it may not be flooded. It will be tough to tell without either an oxygen sensor setup, or the timing set correctly. See where this is headed? Timing first.
i get ya, and yes, damn, my eyes burn, the mixture seems awefully off and im going through a lot of fuel. yes im going to get on to the timing. it just has to be confirmed. that's why some of these less time consuming parts were put on to quicky rule them out. besides it seemed right to do after what seems a very long time of not maintaining this thing.
Use the piston stop to verify where the timing mark points on the balancer. Assume nothing. Searching will yield a lot of info - use the stop in both directions. Meaning turn the engine on way up against the stop, then the other. TDC will be between the two resulting marks.
your right i can no longer assume anything. i just watched a video on the stop and i appreciate you telling me about this because that's new to me. it should do the job. im sure a jobber will be able to source one.

Then it's simply a matter of doing what 67Dart273 said up in post #8

Also, make sure all your changes are made/done on a warm engine. Small changes are OK when cold, especially as far as timing goes. But any mixture changes, and final idle settings should occur on a FULLY warmed engine, which means 170+ degrees, better if it's at the thermostat temperature range (190+).
something about idle, although i rebuilt the carb following the specific instructions i had great trouble maintaining the idle even with the screw turned all the way in. so i went back to the metering rod and adjusted it all the way out and its far better now and idle good but its on the edge of popping out of its containment hooks.
i feel like this thing has been a real surprise bag of multiple problems. i was so happy this thing cost me 2g's now i can honestly say that the sight of this thing is beginning to curl my stomach every time i see it. i just have to make this thing work to changes how i feel around. i wanna tear of the street, burn the tires off and get a call from the cops like i did when i was 19 with my first v8 back in the day to feel better, ha.

thank you for all your help so far to all. i really felt i was alone on this up until now.