Stalls in Gear, Automatic- Restarts Good- Can Slam it into Gear! EEEK

Let me look at all this when my eyes are open, a little busy here at the moment, Looks like you have some good eyes on it already..

I agree, people have been great with sharing their knowledge and opinions this past week. Every input has brought a different view point that I in some cases haven't even known or thought about with my experience in cars.
Thank you