Stalls in Gear, Automatic- Restarts Good- Can Slam it into Gear! EEEK

I checked the fluid level in park only. the trans is a bit oil. I wonder now if the fluid is low enough to effect the converter operation. making it confusing again.

No. YR is right. Its hosed. Trying to fix it or bust it loose or anything else is an exercise in futility. Replace it with a known good unit and all should be well.