Feels like the wheels will fall off.. Ideas..?

I checked the car and suspension parts over multiple times. I jacked the car up and tried to see if there was any movement pushing and pulling the tire, left to right and top to bottom (checking ball joints etc.). There is no play there that I notice.

This is certainly not to poke fun. The fact is, we don't know your knowledge level, mechanic's history, or history of the car, or know if YOU know the history of the car

Are you experienced in front end rebuild / alignment/ troubleshooting? That is, you can's just "feel for loose" you have to do it "right."

Have you read the factory manual? EG, checking many items, you cannot do so if the car is jacked up and suspension "hanging." For many tests, you MUST either have wheels on the ground, or jacks / stands under the A arms, etc.

And, many times it takes two people to find certain things.