you know - the shirt (or skirt) doesn't make the person... I have met my fair share of people who looked the part (all classy dressed up and what-not) but were generally pigs (or any number of other less than kind descriptive words..)... and on the other hand, I have met many who looked just like "us" (regular Joes) and they were amazing upstanding humans... you TRULY cannot judge a book by it's cover