Stop in for a cup of coffee

No matter what you do, it's a crapshoot how kids will turn out. 3 kids raised the same way, 2 may turn out great, 1 might be a POS. The values you instill are about the best shot you have but society's influence can derail all you've tried do. Crapshoot. But then again, all three could turn out just fine...

Just be consistent and love em.