starter relay- bahahahahaha

That's because they are lazy.

The internet and the phone was my friend. If I couldn't cross reference the number, I'd look it up on google and second source it. Through my "normal" vendors I could usually get it dropped shipped within a couple of days. Through my second source vendors I usually got a corporate discount and still sell cheaper than the vendor.
When I built the local Autozone client commercial list,and running Commercial Department,they were so bad about use of Internet uses(can't really argue,there..)I used this site ,plus others..& called people I knew ,for knowledge.Laziness applies: Needed a thermostat gasket,on the Magnum swap,in my Scamp.I rattle off "Fel Pro 35062 ",Chev gasket....The guy,couldn't find it .?I went back,found it by eyeballs...I know it's a dying thing, no one says,"I know this...". Why I am buying from Amazon,& people I actually know....