Hand lapping valves

Well I opened this thread to get advice from those that have done this , not to start a shyte show .For the record I have never asked Grant (Inertia)to choose between his family and my heads or any other work he has done for me .I considered him my friend and have never said an unkind word about him . In June when I was asking around about which machine shop I should send them to Grants answer was none , he insists I give them to him so in July thats what I did .I know he has a full plate and after calling him every couple of weeks to see where we are at it has become pretty obvious he has neither the time nor the inclanation to do them so I picked them up saturday and here we are .
Grant at no time did I say anything to make you feel guilty until this very moment , All I can say is it's a shame you couldn't just pick up the phone and talk to me like an man instead of posting here and making it seem like I was pressuring you to make a choice that you know damn well I would never do , any guilt you feel over your failing to live up to your word is just that your failure not mine .I've told you several times in the past that you owe me no apologies well you sure as f@$k owe me one now .-Chris