I am really gong through a rough time emotionally and in all areas right now and need someone to tal

Discovered that my ex stole $58,703.73.
I wonder what the kids will think of her when they find out. That needs to be an important part of their understanding of my situation and depression.
What are the best words to explain to kids that their mother stole $58,703.73?
It's not something that can be kept a secret.
Hmmm....do your kids really need to know this? Do your kids really need to be part of "adult" issues? Keep in mind Sir, I have no children so have 0 experience in the parenting department. Please don't take my comment as any sort of attack...