please help me with a shopping list? lol

The problem is similar to asking a mechanic what tools and how to do a job. He may do the job entirely differently and use totally different tools than you.

Much the same way no two people build cars alike. It's not about being an asshole, it's about giving good advice.

If you want motor mounts, for example, simply type "3rd generation Hemi swap mounts" into your address bar and hit enter.

Here is what I got in 2 seconds.

Google

This is why you are getting smartass replies. Because it takes 2 seconds or less to have hundreds of links at your fingertips.

Good luck with your project.