Where to start?

Thick skin....that's a door that only swings one way here. I have to endure all the crap....but when I make a comment about a generic butt stripe, piss yellow or puke green paint, bondo work done with a shovel, a slant build etc.....I am told (hate this pc line) "if you ain't got nothing nice to say don't say nothing"....that to me is double standards....and hypocrisy at its finest...