Paying With PayPal And Asking For No Fee's

You know 4spdragtop I have paid just about everybody on this site that I have bought parts from using the friends and family just so they are not hit with the 3% and because I send it using my PayPal balance from my account I am never charged the 3% either, this is why I suggested using it. I agree with you Commando66 it does seem a little tacky to say ad 3% for fee's. And Rusty I thought we were all friends here on this site "well most of us are anyway" so why the lying about sending money to a friend? One more thing so let's say a member is selling something that I want so I buy it and send him or her the 3% above and beyond the asking price no questions asked just wanting to cover the fee, but the member has already figured in the 3% in his or her asking price now I have paid 6% and don't even know it. This seems like a touchey subject, you are dambed if you do and dambed if you don't. You know for years I have paid and received payment this way and have never had an issue until the other day when I lost a sale because of asking him to pay with no fee's.
Bob