Paying With PayPal And Asking For No Fee's

Geof I have bought a few parts from you over the years, most of the time I need to go for a cruise in the Barracuda so I drive out pay you pick up the parts and go back home. But if you have something that I am interested in and can't drive out and you mail it to me then I am going to pay you with PayPal using friends, I don't want it costing you or me any more . Is that wrong, is that lying?
Bob