HOW BAD IS IT!

then im 95% sure its in the clutch system, either the throwout bearing or the pressure plate as I mentioned earlier.
When you say you can't find neutral, do you mean the gears grind when trying to go into gear with the clutch depressed, if so I ran into that when I swapped in a crank that had the tranny pilot shaft hole drilled to depth, but as I found out later was not honed to size, the crank pilot bushing seized on to the tranny input shaft and kept it spinning even with the clutch pedal down.