help me replace my acadia

no, im not looking for donations (though i wont turn them down) but i need options

im looking to replace our 08 acadia with something similar
i love the options and size of this vehicle but the build qaulity is just not there

right now, the ONLY vehicle that has caught my eye is the durango, maybe 2015 and up?

so, here is what im looking for
size: i have a family of 5, which includes my mother in law, who goes with us just about everywhere i go
this means i need 3 rows of seating PLUS enough cargo space behind the third row

i want AWD because we get snow and i want a towing package for the boat

im leaning towards the citadel with the "hemi" because i want something that scoots and i dont really care about mileage

now, i wouldnt mind a v6 with spunk, actually the 3.5 in the acadia moves that truck along just fine

so, what are you guys' thoughts?

any reasons NOT to get the durango?
any other trucks i should look at?