Questions from a newbie...

If you are set on a 408, you should have all kinds of torque, so the next problem becomes what do I need to make it bullet proof. I'd get a Passon Hemi O/D, http://www.passonperformance.com/images/stories/passon_documents/Passon_Overdrive_Flyer_20091109.pdf, and be done. You can use standard "A" Body shifter, linkage and all. The rear will be the next weak point. What torque are you looking at?
From my understanding, the torque will be around 500 ft/lbs. The Passon adds another $2000-$3000, I'm wondering if it's necessary. Will a built 23 spline A833 have problems with the 408 torque?