Totaly confused about Strut Rod Bushings and Washer

I'd just go to RockAuto and look up the correct part for your year. I just bought replacement bushings. I had the original washers re-plated.

I wouldn't use poly bushings if you are using the stock strut rods. The poly bushings don't compress as much and can hold the control arm too far back. You need adjustable strut rods for poly bushings...or so I've read.