Any 42RH or trans experts? Question on frictions and steels

I am rebuilding a 94 42RH trans. It is all built except the O/D unit. I am using the ATSG manual as a reference. I've figured out that I have the "first design" level. According to the manual the steels I need for the direct/OD and O/D clutch packs should approximately be .070 thick. My mic puts them at about .065, which is close. I ASSUME I should buy the .070 thick steels? RockAuto lists many different thicknesses that are close to that (.068, .069, .070 for example). Should I order the exact size, .070 even though mine measure about .065 (wear? mic inaccuracy?, will that much difference matter?)?

Second question pertains to the friction plates. I am not seeing a thickness in the manual on which frictions to order. Mine measure .063 for direct/OD and .081 on the OD clutch pack. I ASSUME there has been wear since new, but should they all be the same thickness?

My clutch pack numbers are as follows:

direct/OD pack: 6 friction, 5 steels
OD pack: 4 friction, 3 steels.

I just need help figuring which thickness and brand I should get. I would like better power holding then stock (for about a 400hp 318, 3.55 gear, mostly street cruiser). I used mancini kit for the main trans rebuild with some SMR upgrades.

Thank you for the help.
I'm not sure of the numerical answer to your questions, but the answer may by in this book, by Carl Munroe:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004XDM44K/?tag=joeychgo-20