Lower control arm bushings. Help.

Chrysler got it wrong on this design. I think I may take a nice Duster, roll it outside... set fire to it and buy a Chevy. For the love of God this is a pain in the ***. Ruined a perfectly good bushing pushing on the first one. I cleaned the snot out of the lower before pushing in the bushing. I lubed it. I found a piece of pipe that fit perfect onto the flange. I’m 3/4 the way in and it’s stopping. Now it’s bent the damn bushing. Is there a place online I can buy lowers already bushed? This is stupid. I would like to beat the hell out of the stupid engineer who thought this was a great design. Sheesh. I would have taken it to a shop and let them do it... but they ruined my spare lower. What a pain in the ***. Deciding now how much gas will make it a nice YouTube video of “ Duster set on fire because of a stupid engineer “.