shipping time after pay pal payment

Crap happens.

IMO, once a buyer receives funds it's up to them to keep the buyer clearly updated on progress with an estimated shipping date and tracking number if available.

Going dark is complete BS unless they are in the hospital, dead or on the north pole. Most any cellphone can send a text or email now. Being to busy to take 2-5 minutes sometime during a day to message is a BS excuse as well.

Send a note politely asking about shipping progress and gauge any response you receive. If it goes unanswered...