So who sits in the middle??

My Daughters dates had to show up with their own cars , A copy of their Bank statement showing they have steady job. And my Police friend would run their name before they showed up. But it didn't help One of my daughters is at home with two kids who's father is a dead beat . He and his family thinks the USA owes them a free life.
Taking complete control of your kids life didnt work? Huh......imagine that.