So who sits in the middle??

"Bank statement" that's gotta be a joke right?
Yeah it was. I never met any of them. My wife had total control of the kids . I was always at work or in the garage. So I blame it all on her. The only time I was asked to get involved is when someone had to pay for their needs or things they wanted. But they did turn out to be good kids. And I love the grand children.