Lost my Dad this week,

drpreposterous said

It does always seem that death of a loved one brings out the best in some and the worst in others. My brother had his Cherokee with lift gate opened and backed up to my Dad's door within an hour of Dad's death, emptying the place out without consulting any of the other six siblings! To this day (five years later), he talks to none of us. But keep that door open; he may yet walk through it with reconciliation in his heart one day. Peace, brother.

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I have no idea what my brothers intentions are but he is staying here for a little while before he heads back to Texas. He is staying in the house we grew up in and that my father lived in. He can be digging in the backyard for all I know......hahaha....I'm pretty sure I have a good grasp of my Dads assets since I have been paying his bills and making sure he had food and liquid money to use to pay the bills. I can tell my brother has an agenda and it bothers my wife but I don't care at all....If anything when the splitting up of everything is over it might be my wife who has an ax to grind with my brother......I just want it all to go smoothly and the split to be even....Like I've heard.......I have all the times I spent with my father while he was healthy and alive and the other times I had with him helping him through the crappiest last 2 years of his life to look back on and smile about. He wasn't a part of the last couple years and it was something he chose and has to live and deal with for the rest of his life.