Need Help! Starter issues.

If I were to massage it, where would be the best place to do so? Nose of starter? Receiver hole in bell? Bendix gear itself?

Won’t the starter have a tendency to vibrate if the nose doesn’t fit snugly in the bell?
My 2 bits, do not alter anything! Just get a case of beer and do some exact comparisons or measurements . Take your time, this stuff is too expensive to start altering things. This is not a Chevy where you have to shim or alter stuff. Mopar does not historically have an issue in this area? Get the bellhousing stamp number and do some research on applications?? Just a thought , might get you know where but at least eliminate that. Good luck.