OK, I performed the steps you suggested below:
The drop to 10 volts from 12.5 even with the resistor's feed side (probably blue?, or blue with trace?) is something else. Power is going somewhere and its not the ECU or coil. See if disconnecting the alternator's field ground (green wire at the alternator) changes that reading. If not, try the field positive (probably blue?).
With the green wire disconnected I read 12.45 volts at the blue wire to the ballast resistor. :) Where do I go from here?