Intake manifold is it stock..which gaskets to use

All my left hand expept for big one is broke..I bought a set from harbor freight and broke half of them...I don't know what is in their but their must be old stuff broke off ..its half hard and half the top of easy out...when i put it in i didn't even use much force and it snapped...
the extractors, by nature, are hard and brittle. If they break, you're up crapp creek without a paddle. On a bigger hole, if the extractor is hard enough you can use its hardness against it, by shattering it with a punch and pulling out the pieces. It's pretty brutal, but it can be done. But for a valve cover bolt hole, I dunno.