wtf is up with these members here ?

Neither of the above mentioned members have I ever seen ONE SINGLE POST from. Not one. And I spend a LOT of time here. No offense meant when I ask this, but did you go to great lengths to do business with totally obscure members?

I do hope you get either a refund or what you bought. You are a good member and don't deserve this.
Well there's roughly 48,000 members and only 50 people that regularly post. I've bought from 4 members and sold to 4 different members. None of them are regular posters here. No problems at all, but these were all face to face cash deals after a phone call to feel each other out. In fact they were all great people.

As far as the guys in question here...communication goes a long way. Most of us are not panseys. We've been around the block. Your old lady kicked you out, you spent the money, whatever...give the man a call and explain yourself and fix it. I have more respect for an employee who calls and says he's hung over,but will work late, than one who doesn't call at all.